You’ve probably heard of the five love languages. Maybe you’ve taken the quiz or even read the book by Gary Chapman. The concept is simple: we each experience love in different ways—through Physical Touch, Quality Time, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, and Words of Affirmation. While this framework holds a lot of value, there’s a subtle—but crucial—nuance that often gets overlooked. One that I’ve seen make all the difference in my work as a marriage counselor. Let’s start he