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All our articles related to improving all relationships in our lives, not just with our partners!


Secrecy vs Privacy in Relationships: Where's the Line?
Keeping something to yourself and keeping something from your partner aren't the same thing, though they can feel identical from the outside. Here's how to tell privacy and secrecy apart, and what to do when the line gets blurry.

Payton Holt
4 days ago6 min read


What Codependency Really Means (and What It Doesn’t)
Like many psychological terms that make their rounds on social media— bipolar , narcissist , borderline , and others— codependency has become a popular buzzword, often used without a full understanding of what it truly means. You’ve likely heard it described as “needing someone to survive,” but that definition oversimplifies—and ultimately misrepresents—what codependency actually is. In this article, I want to clarify what codependency really looks like, why it develops, and

Payton Holt
Oct 24, 20253 min read


A Therapist's Guide to Understanding and Healing Your Adaptive Child
It's not who you are, it's how you survived. Learn how to control the adaptive child part of you that creates struggle in adult relationships.

Payton Holt
May 15, 20254 min read
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